Hi! Hi! Hi! How are you, my friend? I hope you are as good as I am! Well, do not you think this is a toefl or an ielts test? No, it is not. So, let's go to the point!
I wrote this post because I have met three people unintentionally and got involved in, I may say, emotional talks. I though it would be usual and ordinary ones, but I was wrong. Oh yes, I was very thunderstruck to hear that. People whom you think first were the one with less problems compared to you, are actually the one who brought tons of heavy metal on their shoulders. It surprised you as well about how a person can easily be so open up to you when it comes to sharing session.
I wrote this post because I have met three people unintentionally and got involved in, I may say, emotional talks. I though it would be usual and ordinary ones, but I was wrong. Oh yes, I was very thunderstruck to hear that. People whom you think first were the one with less problems compared to you, are actually the one who brought tons of heavy metal on their shoulders. It surprised you as well about how a person can easily be so open up to you when it comes to sharing session.
Well, it might seem so easy, listening to their stories and keeping your mouth shut from passing it out to another person, but it inevitably put me in a such responsibility that I should take care of. Yes, it is wonderful to trust someone, but being trusted is the greatest thing ever.
Even though I hate it, but it is just something I cannot avoid from. Actually, I could set my boundaries if I wanted to, but I think it would be very selfish. I mean, you know the feeling when you can loose the knot from the heart, right? It is like you will be as light as a feather. Yes, having been there for someone who really needed a shoulder to lean on -that sometimes they do not say it directly- gives me a certain feeling, a victory. I do not know why I said so, it just feels like that. Yes, sometimes I did try to find someone else that I am not spending my most time with. I did because I felt like I wanted to express what was in the heart, but yes....... I found my self stuck with them pouring out theirs on me.
Well, maybe I cannot run away from something like this. Something which I believe it is because part of my personality as well. If maybe one of you who read it, experienced the same thing like I did, it is okay... From me, I take it as a ‘source of knowledge’. Yes, knowledge that maybe you cannot find it in an open space. Oh well, I really want to say something to those who mostly spend time talking. We all know the feeling when we are heard, right? Why do not we try to change role to listen to anyone around? I think it is okay if we cannot offer them any advice. But being heard, it is like a remedy finally comes to heal your very critical illness. Why do not we give it for free so that there will be more people get healed? 🙂💙
source: quotefancy.com
